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Volume 6, Issue 15 | August 20, 2010 |
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(Now Recorded!) To Listen to My Audio of This Article, Click Here) I spend a lot of my work time helping individuals, groups and organizations figure out what they want and how to go about getting it. A key ingredient in that recipe is creating a compelling and engaging Vision. Identifying one's desires then painting a sensory rich picture of that compelling destination as a preliminary step to manifesting it. Why Having a Vision Is Crucial: Tips to Create an Uber-Powerful Vision:
1. Determine Your Timeframe: 2. Define What You Really Want 3. Use Present Tense Language & Be As
Specific as It Still Feels Good: For example, if one area of your Vision involves improving your finances, your statement might read: "I Have Easily Doubled My Net Worth to 500K". A statement around relationship might read: "We Have a Satisfying and Enjoyable Partnership That Lovingly Supports Both of Us" or "I Have a Great Relationship with My Body and Am At My Ideal Weight of 140lbs / Size 8". If you find that when you get very specific about what you want and your mood changes (i.e. you become grumpy, irritable or grouchy) … then pull back on the specificity and write a more general statement … wordsmith until you find the right level of detail for you. It's just a sign that you have bumped into your resistance and need to back off a bit for now. (my full SHIFT-IT Graphic Coaching Process® addresses this phenomenon and how to effectively work with it). 4. Do Your Inner and Outer Work: The "inner work" is in believing or allowing that your Vision is possible and more specifically, possible for you! You can vision until the 'cows come home' but unless you believe your vision is possible for you, you won't manifest it. Some people have blocks that prevent them from believing their Visions are possible. I call this phenomenon "Trouble at the Border" --- the psychological and energetic border between where you currently are and where you desire to be. This border is connected to problematic beliefs, attitudes, and outlooks that you picked up somewhere along your path (and in the path of your genetic or tribe). It is possible to break through these patterns. But you've got to be prepared to discover and shift them in order to become a true and genuine match to what you desire. The other work to be done is "Outer Work". Often times Visions can seem far away and unobtainable, perhaps even a little overwhelming. The thing to do is break the gap down into smaller units ---begin to figure out what you can do, in the now, to make movement towards your Vision, even if it's seemingly small. While thoughts and beliefs systems are very important (inner work) good, old fashioned 'Outer Work' or actions is an important part of the equation. Roll up your sleeves and start to take actions on what you presently can – that is aligned with the Vision that you have created for yourself. Trust that your next steps will emerge after you've implemented your immediate ones. 5. Make Peace with Your Meantime: In gardening, it is counter-productive to pick at or dig up something you've just planted. The same goes for visioning. Don't pick at your Vision. Trust it and let it be. Don't get frustrated when it doesn't instantly materialize. Know that everything has a natural incubation or gestation process. Lightly do the action steps that are immediate in front of you. Allow life to gracefully unfold. Just the other day I ran into a friend of mine (Hi Andrew!) who had done visioning work with me about two years ago. With a twinkle in his eye he told me about how his Vision has slowly but surely snuck up on him and that he is now living that reality. "That vision stuff we did sure worked", he said. You can have that experience too. Be fine 'in the meantime' and trust that things are working even if the results aren't quite visible … yet. Visioning is powerful mojo! 6. Map Your Vision and Date It:
So, I invite you to map your own Vision out. As a pioneer in Graphic Coaching I’ve devised a handy template (The Magnetism Map) to help you easily (and enjoyable) create your Personal Vision. This productive visual tool is one of 14 that make up my custom SHIFT-IT Graphic Coaching Process®.
P.S. Additional SHIFT-IT Support: FYI, if you’d like expert support to further help you with the manifestation of your Personal Vision … including the Trouble at the Border resistance work, check out these additional SHIFT-IT services and products: SHIFT-IT Online Group (7 week online course, includes full SHIFT-IT Kit … next one starts tomorrow morning!) SHIFT-IT Central (low fee weekly support group for new and returning SHIFTers) The SHIFT-IT Home Retreat Kit (home study course for do-it-yourselfers). SHIFT-IT Coach Certification (for coaches and therapists who want to use the SHIFT-IT Coaching Process® and suite of 17 visuals tools with their own clientele). Blog Comments: Thoughts? Reactions? Have something to add? Click here to leave comments and read those left by others. Audio MP3s of Past Articles: Click Here © 2010 Christina L. Merkley
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Christina Merkley, "The SHIFT-IT Coach" and creator of the SHIFT-IT System®, is a Visioning and Strategic Planning Expert specializing in Visual Thinking and Law of Attraction techniques. Based in charming Victoria, British Columbia, Canada, she works deeply with individuals, partners and conscious businesses to define and manifest what they truly want. And, trains other helping professionals in her innovative ways of working. For more www.shift-it-coach.com |
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