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Volume 6, Issue 2 | January 22, 2010 | ||||
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Dear %$firstname$%, My BFF (best friend forever) Julie is visiting me this weekend from San Francisco.
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SHIFT-IT VIRTUAL COACHING GROUP: MERKLEY’S MANIFESTATION MASTERMIND
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And, as I’ve also got my BFF (best friend forever) Julie visiting me this weekend from San Francisco (she just left her corporate job as an organizational development manager for a U.S. health care company and wants to create an internet based lifestyle next) I’m jotting down some quick tips for those of you making this same kind of SHIFT. 1. Don’t Do Anything Rash 2. Educate Yourself 3. Make Preliminary Changes 4. Buy Yourself Some Time Implementing boundaries means leaving your work at an agreed upon time and sticking to it (like 5 or 6pm … and being sure to take the breaks coming to you (including all your vacation days) – even if others in your corporate culture frown upon this). Or, even better, negotiating less work hours (like going to a 3 or 4 day work week or an abbreviated day --- many employers are particularly open to this during a down economy). Or working more from home (to reclaim some of those wasted commute hours). In the time that is saved, you also must be disciplined to use it to create and execute your business development plan for your new venture. 5. Enlist Those Closest to You Ideally, your partner will support your decision and together you plot your course (thankfully Julie’s boyfriend Michael is thrilled she has finally left the corporate world … as he’s been self-employed for years and was worried about her long-term health with the load she was carrying). It’s not unusual for couples to do dual plans. One person makes their shift and gets themselves stabilized and then they support the other partner to make his or her shift – really displaying partnership and resourcefulness to work together to keep each person satisfied and fulfilled in work and life. Unfortunately, not all partnerships are so supportive. Some people encounter resistance and even hostility when engaging their partners with their shift plans. Sometimes this resistance softens over time, as the resisting partner sees their partner walking their talk and doing what they said they would – they literally win them over step-by-step (by creating a legitimate, ultimately income producing practice or business). Other times, the resisting partner never changes their tune. And, the shifting partner is faced with making decisions about their relationship – stay, go or somewhere in-between. If you are single or do not have significant others in your life there are different pros and cons. You have the pro of not having to negotiate with another person at that intimate level. But then you also have the cons of not having others to potentially support you during your shift. However, if you are lacking foundational support, you can identify this weakness in your business plan and build it in accordingly (like getting a coach, enlisting in a mastermind group, seeking out local small business development resources, etc). 6. Have Realistic Expectations 7. Accept Your Timing Blog Comments: Thoughts? Reactions? Have something to add? Click here to leave comments and read those left by others. Audio MP3s of Past Articles: Click Here © 2010 Christina L. Merkley WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE OR WEB SITE? Christina Merkley, "The SHIFT-IT Coach" and creator of the SHIFT-IT System®, is a Visioning and Strategic Planning Expert specializing in Visual Thinking and Law of Attraction techniques. Based in charming Victoria, British Columbia, Canada, she works deeply with individuals, partners and conscious businesses to define and manifest what they truly want. And, trains other helping professionals in her innovative ways of working. For more information visit: www.shift-it-coach.com |
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